Years ago, after a period of intense reflection, I realized something about myself.  When I looked back at the less successful ventures in my life, nearly all of them could be attributed to a failure to read the culture of a particular organization or group of people. My worst job experience ever was at a company that had a very strong culture around dotting i’s and crossing t’s.  I had come from an entrepreneurial company where everything was, in the words of a colleague, “loosey goosey.”  Creativity and risk-taking were rewarded, and lack of attention to detail was often forgiven or perhaps not even noticed.  I failed to read the tremendous shift in my new organization and failed in the job as a result. But the examples I can come up with are not limited to organizational ones.  I remember a  boyfriend whose family I never really fit in with. …