Adam Grant and Sheryl Sandberg’s new book, Option B, is about building resilience.  I don’t think there could be a hotter topic in the world of federal agency leadership development these days.  I haven’t read the book yet, but there’s an article on Linkedin that gives a great introduction to the concept of “option B.”  To quote Grant: “I always thought there were two parties in every relationship. Sheryl said there are three: you, the other person, and the relationship itself… Most of the time, when someone fails, it’s not because there’s a bad apple spoiling the barrel. It’s because the barrel is a bad relationship.  In other words: It’s not me. It’s not you. It’s us.”   And working on the “us” is option B. Grant and Sandberg aren’t just talking about personal or professional relationships; they’re talking about organizational relationships too.  I’m reminded of my worst career failure, back…